“Most powerful is he who has himself in his own power.”
~Seneca
Have you ever gone back for an extra serving of food when you weren't
hungry? How about mindless eating between meals on occasion? I’m sure most of
us at some time or another took an additional serving (or two) of food or ate
unplanned meals especially during holidays, birthdays, hurricanes and long
weekends. Let's face it temptations to over-indulge are all around us. But when
is it a problem—an illness?
When was the last time you binged on a block of spinach or a bushel of
apples? I'm willing to bet not too often. How about a box of brownies,
chocolate chip cookies, or a bag of potato chips? Ah...hitting a nerve am I? If
you watch your friends, acquaintances, or how about a stranger in a restaurant,
I’m certain you will witness at every turn someone who binge eats. Do you?
So, what makes the difference between an occasional over indulgence and an
eating disorder? When is it an eating disorder? And of course addiction plays
into the mix too. What about food addiction? To make matters more confusing,
when is it binge eating disorder and when it is food addiction? And, could it
actually be a combination of the two?
Let’s face it, millions of Americans hide, steal, and hoard food
anticipating a secret binge. After their indulgence they're filled with remorse
and shame promising to never over eat again. One of the least discussed and
most common eating disorder is binge eating disorder. Binge eating is defined
as over eating a large amount of food in a small period of time, at least three
times a week for six months or longer. Binge eating, or compulsive eating—as it
is more familiarly known—affects more than 20 million people in the United
States alone. And yet, we focus more on bulimia nervosa and anorexia when it
comes to eating disorders.
Although bulimia and anorexia nervosa are the eating disorders that pop into
most minds when discussion of dysfunctional eating surface, in my practice, the
majority of my eating disordered patients suffer from binge eating disorder
and/or obesity. This isn't to say all bingers are obese or even overweight, because
some actually can be of normal weight. Also, not all overweight persons binge
eat. And where does food addiction fit into the mix?
Confusing? Yes, for sure it is…
The biggest challenge is to sort through whether the patient has food
addiction, binge eating disorder, or a combination of the two.
The food addict also eats a large amount of food in a small period of time,
and like compulsive eating, it comes with consequences that can be lethal, such
as obesity, heart disease, relationship issues, body image, and et cetera. The
big difference between the two disorders is food addicts crave specific foods
that are uncontrollable no matter what attempts they put forth to stop (i.e.,
dieting, restricting, exercising, et cetera).
I liken food addiction, an uncontrollable craving for high sugar and
processed foods, to recreational drugs such as cocaine, heroin, and nicotine.
And the food addict needs to consume the sugary/starchy substance in order to
function—to feel "normal." In all addiction cases, the substance
dependent consumes larger amounts of their drug for longer periods than were
normally intended with persistent desires or repeated unsuccessful attempts to
quit—even if it interrupts social, recreational, and family interaction—because
the addicted substance takes precedence.
When it comes to treatment for binge eating disorder it is often not about
the food but rather about the emotional deficits. When it comes to treatment
for food addiction it is about the food—specific foods that trigger the
compulsion to consume large amounts of it no matter what the cost. Although
binge eating disorder and food addiction share many of the same symptoms, food
addiction shares the emotional component of binge eating disorder as well as
the symptoms such as obsession with body, weight, mood shifts, closet eating,
stealing, where compulsive eating is about the inability to deal with emotions.
I suffered from food addiction and binge eating disorder as far back as I
can remember—I just didn't know what it was called. I thought there was something
wrong with me mentally. I craved chocolate, doughnuts, chips, and anything
gooey and sweet beyond normalcy and I tried every diet under the sun—including
diet pills, commercial diet centers, starvation, over exercising, none of which
helped me tame the compulsion to eat beyond full in spite of the detrimental
consequences, which in my case was obesity.
I wish I knew then what I know now about eating disorders, treatment, and
spiritual recovery. Perhaps I could have avoided all the pain and suffering
with my weight up and my weight down—an endless battle—until now. Today, I live
life without the torture of worrying about getting heavy, craving foods I can’t
control the amount of. And spiritually my cup is full.
So, if you are one to eat an extra serving, two, or three beyond holidays,
birthdays, hunkered down for hurricanes, and long weekend temptations, when you
weren't hungry, to the point of devastating consequences that hamper the
quality of your life, perhaps you may suffer from an eating disorder such as
food addiction, binge eating disorder (compulsive eating) or both intertwined.
My 20 years experience as a clinical psychotherapist, a PhD in addiction
psychology, certified eating disorder specialist, certified addiction
professional, and national board certified clinical hypnotherapist has not only
made me a recognized expert in my field, but also made me privy to
understanding the experience of those (and myself) releasing their obsessions
with food and turning to their connection with the divine energy (known as God
for some) and people.
http://weightcontroltherapy.com/
Photos by Dr. Lisa Ortigara Crego